‘I'm going into adult entertainment. What if people find out?’

Question: I expect to soon enter a niche of the adult entertainment industry. I intend to take all precautions to do so anonymously.

But if I am successful, the warm blanket of anonymity may one day disappear. How should I respond if and when this knowledge becomes commonly known in my community?

For the record, I am not ashamed, and I wish to simply respond with grace. But I expect that it may be uncomfortable. Any suggestions?

- Anonymous

Answer: My first question, of many, is uncomfortable for whom? You've articulated a peace with the decision you've made to enter the adult entertainment industry...